The most amazing experience or a disaster? Maybe both. Your experience living with a fearful dog can be an emotional roller coaster. When you first decided it was time to bring home another dog or maybe your first dog ever, you were filled with excitement. You start planning for your new best friend, you pick out a collar, their ID tag (gotta have the cutest collar and ID tag), their leash, their food bowl and water bowl, their crate, their bed, and the list goes on. Then you start thinking about the dog you want your dog to be and the things you want to do with your dog. You bring your dog home and you do it all. You're so excited, you have all your friends meet him and you do everything you think your supposed to do including walks through the neighborhood. A week or so goes by and reality hits you in the face hard. What happened to this sweet dog I picked out? Why is he growling and barking at everyone he sees? Or maybe he's hiding under a table when people come over. What do you do?
Living with a fearful dog can be a challenge, we that do it know we can't just just take them anywhere to board, if we can board them at all. We can't have a random pet sitter stay with them. It can be hard to go on vacations and hard to even leave your home with your dog because you now have this fear of what may happen. Is he going to bark, lunge or growl at someone? Is there going to be a day when he bites someone? Then what happens? What seems normal and easy for most dogs is a big deal for your dog and you. At times it can be emotionally draining.
It can also be extremely rewarding. If you are pointed in the right direction. The journey to finding that direction can be so frustrating you want to pull your hair out. I myself struggled with that journey. My first dog was afraid of people and dogs. He had aggressive tendencies when he was afraid. I have also fostered a fearful dog with aggressive tendencies when afraid. I have also worked with many fearful dogs. It has consumed me and I find helping these dogs to be extremely rewarding. So what do we do? How do we help these dogs have the best life possible when they are so afraid of everything? And how do we make our own lives better?
1. Keep your dog feeling safe at all times
Avoid any situations that may cause your dog to be uncomfortable. This may include walks in a neighborhood or busy area.
2. Allow him to control his fear
If he wants to walk away, get out of a situation, or make something stop happening to him, allow him to do so. Allow him to approach what he is afraid of only when he is ready.
3. Positive Reinforcement
Reinforce behaviors associated with his fears such as looking at it, moving closer to it, or investigating it. Make positive associations with his fears. If he's afraid of the hair brush you pair the hair brush with food.
4. Enrichment
Provide mental and physical enrichment each and every day. This can be puzzle toys, food hunts, nose work, at home agility/mobility training, fetch, tug, sniff walks in the woods, or learning new behaviors through positive reinforcement.
5. Pet sitters
Utilize pet sitters when going on vacations. If your dog is afraid of people, help your dog build a trusting relationship with one or two pet sitters and try to hold on to those individuals.
6. Veterinary Behaviorist
Seek help and guidance from a board Certified Veterinary Behaviorist.
7. Behavior Consultant
Seek help and guidance from a Certified Behavior Consultant.
Mike Baughman, CBCC-KA
That is a great question and I know how frustrating this can be.
You are right, you want to show her people won’t hurt her. Step one is keeping her feeling safe. Often when dogs are afraid of people, just the sight of them is going to make them feel in danger. So every interaction with people can make the problem worse and reinforce the aggressive behavior. Because the behavior works. The aggressive behavior keeps people away from her. A common example of this is with people that are afraid of spiders. Just the sight of a spider sends them into a full panic.
However there is a way to help our dogs learn strangers are not a threat. This…
Why would I want to avoid taking her to stores?
I'm trying to get her used to people by teaching her they will not hurt her.
I don't want her isolated even more!!!
Bad enough she's an abuse victim, and we have been working with her for a yr now, but some issues are just not showing improvements.
Like right now, I'm on meds for a severe ear infection that only Walt can give me. At this time, since I have to lay down, she runs up to the back of my head and growls and barks at Walt the entire time he's giving me the meds.
Other times, if he just walks over to me, to hand me something,…
Thanks for the question. It’s a good one. When going to the vet, ask your vet if you can call to check in and wait in the car with your dog when it’s your turn and the lobby is clear. Most vets will accommodate this request. There is also a “fear free” certification some vets are getting. The certification program helps vets handle fearful dogs in a way that can help them most at the clinic. Fear free certified vets also have techniques so they don’t have to restrain your dog.
Also if posssible avoid taking your dog to public places like work or the store.
As far as the behavior change. There can be few reasons. Your dog still…
Here's my question.
Have done and are doing almost all of the above (minus behavior consultant)
When Walt takes her to the store or to his work, or to the vet, she's good, doesn't growl or try to attack, let's people get pretty close to her but won't let them near enough to attempt to pet her.
If I take her, it's full on attack mode to everyone she sees or gets close to me, and needs to be muzzled and restrained at vet.
Why the difference, I know she has severe separation anxiety, she goes after Walt any time he gets close to me
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